Playing Dumb

I just realized I forgot to mention—I got my nails done this past Sunday! With Chinese New Year just around the corner (only 8 days to go!), I knew it was time for a classic festive nail theme. Naturally, red had to be the main color—it’s a must—but I didn’t want anything too bright. So, I went with a gorgeous maroon shade instead.

I had them done in JB, and the nail artist was super skilled. They worked magic on my nails! Now, my fingers are all dressed up with red and gold—a perfect combo to symbolize the spirit of Chinese New Year. I’m so ready to welcome the festivities in style!

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Recently, I realized a skill I’m really good at. Well, to be fair, I wouldn’t say I just discovered it—I’ve always had this sneaking suspicion about it. But I never truly acknowledged it until now. Today’s the day I finally recognized how important this skill is. And honestly? It’s a survival tool in the game of life and work.

Here’s the deal: I’m really good at listening and understanding what people want. Not only that, but I can also convey messages between parties with ease. Now, some might say, “How hard can it be to understand what someone’s saying?” To that, I’d reply: Very hard—especially when the person doesn’t even know how to express themselves properly. That’s where I come in.

And let’s not forget those people who speak with hidden meanings, expecting you to pick up on their sarcasm or subtle hints. Guess what? I get it instantly. I’ve mastered decoding their cryptic ways. But here’s the twist: the old me used to overthink it, wondering if I’d done something wrong and trying to fix it. The new me? Nah. I play dumb. If it’s none of my business, I make sure it stays that way.

Case in point: Today, my least favorite colleague—who also happens to be my manager (oh, the joy)—approached me about a case. I could hear the hidden message loud and clear: he wanted to push this case onto me so he wouldn’t have to deal with it himself. But of course, I put on my best I-have-no-idea-what-you-mean face. And guess what? He couldn’t do a thing about it.

Ladies and gentlemen, this is the art of speaking and the ultimate survival hack for the workplace. Stay sharp out there.